Ask yourself in this moment & create a new habit to check in with yourself - how are you feeling right now? Really. What are you thinking about. If you are like me I tend to look at something I really want to have or be & feel a little discouraged that I don't or I'm not. Consciously I'm thinking that I would like that thing or state, but my emotional position behind the scenes is more of feeling deprived, lacking & wanting still. It's not always, but it's often & it's a habitual limiting belief as well as an emotion forming my point of attraction. It is this emotion which I am unrealizingly co-creating my experience from. The universe is bringing me more of this feeling. The universe does not judge. It is I who is creating my own situation/conditions, it's just that I don't always recognize it. I'm sure if you are observant & honest with yourself you will find the same is true.
We can ask for help. Ask to become more aware & affirm that you are. Little by little you will see it.
As we are aware of our thoughts & emotions & limiting beliefs, self-talk & also words, we then can chose to change. Then the more to come can be the positive choices... We're all in this together as one unified consciousness so I wish you success!!
One who is mostly an observer thrives in good times but suffers in bad times because what he is observing is already vibrating, and as he observes it, he includes it in his vibrational countenance. As he includes it, the Universe accepts that as his point of attraction and gives him more of it. So the better it gets the better it gets. Or the worse it gets the worse it gets. While one who is a visionary thrives in all times.