Sarah Hall sarah@sarahhall.com via gmail.mcsv.net Wed, Jan 20 Will you be an Anchor for Unity and Peace? Lately, I have often found myself sending prayers of peace and hope into our collective human heart and spirit. And each time I do so, I feel a gentle light nudging from within, accompanied by the Angels’ voices as they echo: “All is well, and all is one. There can be no other truth but this in the mind of Love.” During times when the world seems to be divided, and hearts surrounded with fear, it is important to remember that we are one not only with each other, but also with the divine love that has given rise to all of existence. In this oneness, everything we do, think, speak, and give, we give to ourselves. When you offer judgment, fear, worry, or stress in response to a situation or person in your life, you’re not just sending those feelings off into the world in order to seemingly rail against the unfairness, imperfection, or negativity you think you see. You’re also directly sending those feelings into your own heart. If you offer a fear-based response to a fear-based situation, only more fear can come from it. If each person were to respond in this way, then fear would soon spread throughout the collective. However, according to the Angels, fear cannot win any more than a fleeting shadow might hope to put out the light of the sun. Remember, we are not only one with each other, but also with the divine source and essence of the universe. Our source and essence is love, and its power is almighty. So no matter how the shadows might leap to project the illusion of great size or stature, remember: you are love. You are one with the infinite light that shines more brightly than a thousand suns. You exist because you are love’s light. As such, you have the power to choose to offer love’s miraculous power in response to every situation and person you meet in your life. It costs you nothing to do this because love’s forces are infinite, constant, and omnipresent. Of love’s essence, there can be no lack. What you give to this world that you are now experiencing, you also give to yourself, and to all beings. Channeled Angel Messages:Does the child of love deserve anything less perfect love? You deserve perfection, beautiful light-worker. Perfect peace and unity are yours already, for they are the gifts infinitely and constantly given to you by God, your source. Rest in the peace of unity with truth and love. This peace is always yours! Rest in this knowledge and allow yourself to be the light you are in divine truth. You have everything it takes to be the light of the world. That power glows within you now and always.
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YOU ARE THE BRIDGE THAT LEADS OUT OF DARKNESS
The Star Elders through Aluna Joy Solstice December 21, 2020 www.AlunaJoy.com - Ⓒ 1995-2020 Your reality has reached a major pivotal point. This is the change you have asked for. There are no directions on how to navigate these new times, but they will be created in each moment by following your heart center. A new dimension/reality/Earth template is landing now. We don't have words for this and neither do you; but we see that you can feel the reverberation, or the ripples, from this new energy. You are stretching and reaching for it now. It is not quite close enough, and it is not time to make the leap. There is still some polarized baggage to clean up. Duality is cancelling itself out through the use of exaggerated extremes created between the forward thinking and the past dependent ones within humanity. Obsolete programming is being dissolved as it fights its last battles. Humanity's consciousness is continuing to go through a huge awakening by the way of a collective dark night of the soul. Radical emotions and reactions in humanity are symptoms of this. The collective consciousness is being flushed out and prepared for the future. The polarities will now begin to dissolve because they are contaminated in every direction and on all fronts. These things do not belong in the new Earth Nuclei. From this point forward, when you look back, you will wonder how you achieved this transformation. You are on the master's path. This is a very fine tuned dance ... to not take sides, or take up arms and go to battle for any extreme position. The way through this is to keep your balance, stay in your center and out of the non-permanent distraction of chaos that is a around you. Keep flowing through your center. You can maintain your balance by adopting an attitude of flexibility and radical acceptance of the process that is in front of you at any given moment. Remain in your heart without judgments. Be very patient, and stay in your grounded body. If you become polarized, you could collect impurities that you will have to clear and heal later and with more challenges. To stay clear and land fully into the new Earth template totally prepared, you must maintain yourself in a neutral center until the balance returns. And it will. This time of confusion and challenge is not forever. You will know when you begin to anchor within your center and the higher frequencies. You will begin to feel uncomfortable taking up any "side" or "battle". Your biases will be very few, because you have already begun to anchor yourself in the new Earth template and its new frequencies, that are balanced and non-polarized. The places you judge are the places, dimensions and levels of consciousness that you will become stuck in until you learn to go beyond it. Let the old fall away when it is too dense to be useful anymore. Be compassionate and let others, who seam to be lost, catch up to the new program. This all takes time, and they will come to the truth in waves. All the upcoming events that transpire are all in divine order. There is nothing to worry about. Just take comfort in knowing that what is out of balance with the new frequencies absolutely CANNOT come forward into the future. You can have confidence in this fact. Where you place your energy is where you are. Not taking action is an action in itself. Be in the still center place, and do not get drawn into the drama that is playing out now. There is power in doing nothing and letting the universe self balance. You will be a bridge for humanity. You are moving beyond the separation of time. You will find it easier to be present in the moment, but it will be a natural part of the process to go through levels of grief and regret of the past, fear and worry of the future, and self doubt and questioning. Do not escape these feelings, but go through them, learn, and come back to the present and your center. Tomorrow will be a great mystery that we will navigate together. As you have discovered, it is pointless to expect to find truth “out there†no matter what the source. You must find and live from your own inner source and center, so as not to attract an event created by an unbalance (karma). If any situation triggers you, re-examine the origin of your belief system surrounding it. You are NOT your beliefs. Beliefs are not truth, and they always change with the times. But your essence never changes for it is eternal. You ARE the mirror, but you are not the reflection it sends out. All of creation is being cleared to create a new vessel for the new Earth nuclei and the larger Earth template. We say again ... surf in the center ... live in the eye of the storm. Act from unity or tribe consciousness, and make your choices based on the collective well-being, and not just your individual self. When you live from this new balance, within all that is, you support and create a path for all to follow. You are the bridges that lead out of the dark night. You are the new visionaries and the way-showers. - Aluna Joy Yaxk'in with the Star Elders. Side note ... We are crossing directly over the same energy, or point in time, where deep collective wounds were caused by the fall of Atlantis. Much of the polarization, over reaction and deep resistance is coming not from the present, but from the deep wounds of the past. This is being triggered to be faced and healed, because these wounds cannot go further into the future. So again ... Be kind. Know that people are going through much more than you can possibly realize. We thank you all for your generosity this year. We appreciate your Heart Donations ... especially during these times. https://www.alunajoy.com/heartdonation.html The Star Elders through Aluna Joy Solstice December 21, 2020 www.AlunaJoy.com - Ⓒ 1995-2020 New post on Oracles and Healers
There is a new world just over the horizon – The Council by Ron Head Over the past months, while we have not communicated with you, you have noticed, if you are indeed aware, that much of what we have spoken to you about previously has come to pass. And, again if you are aware, you will have noticed that the tempo of these changes has increased dramatically. Now we will give you what you call a “heads-up”. Between now and the early days of your new calendar year, massive unprecedented change will occur. We have told you over and again that it will possibly be very hard for you to experience. You have also replied, “Bring it on.” Be prepared to help those around you to cope. This will NOT be easy. If you wish to personally make the most of this, consider it to be an opportunity to exercise the best of what believe about yourselves and be available to all who ask for your help in understanding the moment. Consider even that harsh opinions may be calls for help. This will be but a short, but radical shift. Much has gone into preparation. Much help will be available both from your material surroundings and from the higher. Do not force yourself to refrain from accepting such. If you find yourself needing to accept that much is going against a great deal of what you have believed to be so, understand that the fault is not yours. You have been systematically lied to for a long while. Even now this is so. But there is a light at the end of that tunnel. There is a new world just over the horizon. Be prepared to accept the best of all possibilities. That is your birthright. You are divine creations of The One. Now is the time for you to learn that to be your Truth. This is the season of your most joyous celebrations. Make it so. Judith Kusel ~ December 2, 2020
We are in a time of huge transitions from the lower dimensional state in the higher. This does not mean that we will not be challenged or that life will become smooth sailing. No. We still in many aspects need to operate in the lower dimensional, while simultaneously operate in the higher dimensional state. At this moment we are still in the birthing state, where a lot of the old 3D programmings, fears, etc. will come up, so that we can release it and transcend it. You will however find that as you become more aware of what needs to release, forgiven and be transcended, that the process accelerates. You do not need that much time anymore, to transcend it. As you step ever higher into the reborn you, AS ONE with the DIVINE, you will seek Unity, Harmony and Balance, more than the lower discord and separation. The Unity with the Divine and All That IS, will become a way of life, just like breathing. The more you step up and truly operate from the highest level, the less the 3D will impact you. You are learning to walk the walk of a Master. To be in this world – but not of it! Indeed, you will seek the highest and most truthful paths, with unconditional love, and more than this the Unity and Oneness with the Divine Source, the Sacredness more than anything or anyone else. It will be the filling of you, to overflowing, and you cannot be other than the highest truth of who and what you are, at Soul Level and Omniversal Levels. We are in for an energetic rollercoaster ride, as very powerful energies are pouring in, escalating the immensely powerful acceleration into the higher dimensional state. This is going to increase in the next few weeks, as we are literally being pulled into the New World and New Golden Age. You will need more rest and more mini vacations as you allow your physical body to adapt. The heart center is expanding more as the soul grows into expanded Oneness with the Divine remembering the highest truth within. All is expanding rapidly as the old disintegrates. The immensity of total rebirth is happening. Judith Kusel http://www.judithkusel.com REALITY QUICKSAND & HOW YOU CAN NAVIGATE IT!
Aluna Joy Yaxk'in November 20, 2020 www.AlunaJoy.com - Ⓒ 1995-2020 (7 magnificent minutes to read) This is the nature of a global, dark night of soul, and it is what happens during a major shift of an age. This is what is going on within you right now. This is what is going on outside of you in the world right now. It is why everything feels so chaotic, out of balance and filled with looping themes. It feels insane, confusing, deeply triggering, and even enraging. It is all part of the process. This is a hard journey that we are in together. It can be mind and soul bending, but we are going to see this through ... because the only way out of this is through it. "When we no longer know what to do, we have come to our real work and when we no longer know which way to go, we have begun our real journey." ~ Wendell Berry The Star Elders say (when we are in a dark night of the soul) "The truth will be as lies, and the lies will be as truths." This is the nature of a global dark night of soul ... to not know which way is up. Nearly everything transmitted out into the world, in all forms of media, communication, platforms, social media, others opinions, etc..., is simply contaminated. Some of this information will resonate with you, because there will be some elements of truth within, making it easier to accept it as whole truth. But the fact is that nearly everything, in all forms, will also have woven within it elements of twisted untruths, miscommunications, denials, biases, and even some controlling agendas. Memory and consciousness will also get strange. We might remember details or events that we had with others that never happened, and vice versa. Our dream time might feel more real than when we are awake. Most of this disorientation to actual truth is simply innocent as the confusion and the dissolution of this closing age is effecting the consciousness of every living human being is some way or another. In this global dark night of the soul, it is normal to experience levels of truth that are twisted beyond recognition by the grip of dying, past programs and out of date, social perspectives. This is a time where we are standing on "reality quicksand!" In order not to drown, most of us will gravitate toward a perspective, or theme, based on our life experience, belief system and biases that may or may not create a blindness to the actual truth that resides hidden within all this chaos. This gives us a temporary, faux life line to hang onto. We may find ourselves quickly and adamantly defending ourselves for our beliefs and biases without taking a breath and thinking it all through. I bet that some of you have had the experience of getting triggered by something that you were reading; then you quickly reposted it, only to discover that you had read it through your anxiety and fear and gotten the message all wrong. Most beings are working really hard to stay balanced and in control of reality. As we attempt to hold on, we become an over-reactive, collective consciousness. This is dangerous to our spiritual centeredness and balance. The fact is, there really is no control in a true dark night of an age, and this is how we truly know that this is what is happening in our world today. This time can only offer us a scary and deep free fall into the great unknown. So please be gentle with yourself. Be gentle to people you can no longer have a civil conversation with right now, because they are hanging on the best they can, as are you. Even if we are all divided in ways that we could have never imagined before, we are still ONE, and we are ALL part of the human race. This is all a normal part of the process. During this time, there will be many tsunami-like waves rushing through your reality. It will be normal and even expected to feel all-encompassing, self-doubt in so many ways and directions that it will be mind and soul bending. A dark night can and will be devastating to your ego and your old reality. But this isn't just a personal dark night of the soul; it is a global one bringing debilitating collective confusion. This is what happens when there are uncountable and highly polarizing rabbit holes for us to fall into out there. The fact is that we will not be able to find lasting truth outside of ourselves right now. Universal truth is never found externally from you in the first place. In a dark night of the soul, what happens is that most every door of possibility will close, and only one small door is left open into a new reality. It is like finding a needle in a hay stack. This reminds me of the parable ... "It is easier for a camel to go through the eye of a needle than for a rich man to enter the kingdom of God". Of course, this was written a long time ago in a very different world. But there is still truth here. Now we know money isn't evil. But it is the power, greed, selfishness, and corruption that can go with material wealth that is evil, especially when it is in the hands of ones who are not living from their center. It also asks the question that if we have a lot to hold onto in this life, would we make the leap through the eye of a needle into the new, elevated realty, or would we hang back and hold on to our material possessions? We appreciate your Heart Donations ... especially during these times. Make Offerings Here
THE FINAL BATTLE FOR EARTH
Aurora - The Galactic Federation contact@thegalacticfederation.com As planet Earth moves further along the Gamma Timeline towards the end of Earth year 2020… a Massive fleet of Benevolent LIGHT Forces docked in Earth’s Solar System were given a Green-Light Go Directive to initiate the Final Operation “Ascension Earth”. The Final Battle between LIGHT and Darkness for ownership of planet Earth… Delta Forces of LIGHT have Now confirmed an overwhelming Victory over most remaining Draco forces that were hiding in Sub-Lunar Space and the Energetic path is NOW Clear for the planet to BEgin moving into the Fifth Dimension. The Pleiadians have conveyed to certain Earth Alliance members that the Entire Ancient 3D Matrix Control System that has Gripped the BEings of Earth for eons is going to Completely Fall Apart NOW… Like Dominoes Tumbling! We Shall See this BEgin to Happen in Only a matter of Weeks NOW! According to New Data received by the Earth Alliance… a substantial DNA Expansion has been occurring among the BEings of Earth over the last 30 days and over the next two months, this DNA Expansion will BEcome very Noticeable. What is currently Happening on Earth is Positive… however it will have quite a shocking effect on Global Human Consciousness and will cause Humanity to BEgin WAKING UP even faster. The Pleiadians say… this sudden Global Consciousness Leap is the Major Turning Point on Earth’s Ascension Timeline. On December 21, 2020… a Magnificent Celestial Stargate will open in the Heavens which marks the Dawn of the NEW AGE of Aquarius and the 1st day of the “Satya Yuga” of Central Sunlight. At 11:11 am UTC on the Winter Solstice… the long-awaited New Era of LIGHT will Finally Dawn and the NEW 5D Earth will BE Born on Earth. A 20-year Jupiter / Saturn “Great Conjunction” that Falls on the most significant Solar day of the year… the December Solstice. At that Moment on Earth’s Gamma Timeline… powerful streams of Super-High-Frequency (Central Sun) Energy will BEgin flowing into Earth’s Atmosphere. The LIGHT has Not been present on Earth since the days of Atlantis and Advanced Science shows that 40-Hertz-Frequency… 5D… Gamma LIGHT will instantly Re-Code DNA to a more Complex Order. If you have Inner Eyes to see… you can see the Grand Ascension of Humanity is NOW imminent on every front and somethings really Big is about to Happen on planet Earth. Humanity is about to experience a Evolutionary Quantum Leap in Consciousness and every BEing from every corner of the Universe is Here for a front row seat to witness the Grand Ascension of Humankind. This Grand “NOW” Reality… is the Great Time spoken of old by many Prophets and Visionaries when Humanity would BEgin moving from the long period of Cosmic Darkness into the Blinding New GOLDEN AGE. With Sacred LOVE of ONE
FEEL THE LOVE IN THIS SONG
Archangel Gabriel Daily Message - Wednesday, November 18, 2020
Trinity Esoterics shelley@trinityesoterics.com via gmail.mcsv.net Many of you become frustrated if you do not see forward movement in your lives. We wish for you to know that growth and expansion is always occurring, and just like the flow, sometimes you will see it as a tangible physical manifestation while other times it will be happening behind the scenes within you. With your spiritual growth the expansion is internal first, then the resulting external reflection of that work will follow. As with all things in the universe, it is the combination of the two that create sustainable and balanced forward movement. You can have ease with this process because the rhythm of the universe is very predictable. A long period of internal exploration like you have experienced in 2020 will naturally be followed by the external exploration of the new, true potentials that can begin to be discovered due to the energetic spaciousness you have spent the time creating within. Do you see? The internal supports the external, the lull supports the flow, and growth and expansion is always occurring because each supports the other in equal measure. It is a glorious dance of love and interconnectedness that will always lead you to your next greatest discovery. ~Archangel Gabriel through Shelley Young Message from the Angels
Ann Albers angelann@cox.net via aweber.com My dear friends, we love you so very much, Your world looks to us like a choppy sea right now – stormy on the surface, and yet always calm and peaceful in the depths of your being. On the surface there is great division. In the depth of your shared essence, there is unity. On the surface there is a clashing of ideas. In the depth of your shared humanity there is a unification of ideals. On the surface there is disease, anger, frustration, fear. In the depths of each and every soul willing to surrender to the love you are made of, there is well-being, peace, security, and an awareness that you are all moving towards a better, kinder, and more unified world. The birthing pangs continue on your earth. Just as a mother giving birth must surrender and exert an incredible labor of love to assist in the emergence of her baby, so too you – the light workers – are going to be called upon to surrender to the events you cannot control, and exert an effort born of love – to be love, to pray for love, to be peace, to pray for peace, to be the light and the love that you truly are. You will not assist your world by joining in the chaos. You will not assist your world by any stance of righteousness,judgment, or superiority. You will not assist your world by trying to force light into anyone's darkness. Instead be the light. Be the love. Be the peacekeeper. Be the one who gets up in the morning and appreciates your pillow for cradling your head at night. Love the soap and the water in your shower. Love your breakfast. Give thanks for your home. Give thanks for your family. Pet your dog. Praise your children. Appreciate your partners. Then pray dear ones, for all human hearts to be uplifted. Pray for the hurting to be soothed. Pray for the fearful to feel God's love. Pray for yourself to be at peace. When you look at someone, imagine the spark of light in their hearts growing brighter until you imagine them glowing with this light. Telepathically whisper to each soul you see, whether in your physical presence or in the media, "You are loved." Do this for all souls – not just the ones you agree with – for all, regardless of beliefs or behaviors, are sourced from the very same light. As you silently bear witness to the inner light, you help others remember who they really are. As you telepathically whisper to souls, you send a vibrational wave of love to them, which their soul will energetically interpret and feel. Your emanation of love might be the one that calms the hurting heart of a person who is about to become violent. Your telepathic whisper might be the one that soothes a soul who was in such pain that they were preparing to exit the planet by their own hand. Your love might be a wave of peace that lifts a spirit before they fall into the depths of despair and resignation. You may never meet these souls. You may never know them. Nonetheless, in the depth of your shared essence, you are connected, and your love matters. Your vibration matters. Love – consciously, intentionally, in every moment you possibly can. Love your technology. Wash your dishes with love. When you are driving in your car, or doing mundane tasks, repeat simple truths as if you could whisper to all souls. "You are loved. You matter." Say, "I love you" to anyone, anything, and everything you can, even if in the privacy of your own heart. "I love you world. I love you dear stranger in the grocery store. I love the light within you dear soul on the news whose words I can't stand. I love you human race. I want you to know you are loved." You are all loved – more than you can ever imagine. You are guided. You have legions of angels and other-dimensional beings sending light to your planet right now. You have a team to personally support your every thought, word, and deed of love. As for your help. When you are upset, breathe slowly and deeply and search with your feelings to feel our love. Breathe. Focus on any good feelings in your body. Imagine you are loved and surrounded by a warm, fuzzy field of comforting light, because you are. When you are afraid, ask us to help you rest in the peace of the Divine. Breathe. Imagine you are surrounded by angels. Imagine your home and your neighborhood or business glowing with, surrounded, and protected by the light of the Divine. Affirm that wherever you live or wherever you go, the space in you and around you is a sanctuary for peace. Dear ones, you can either allow peace to rise up from the depths of your being, or you can allow the world to infiltrate your mind with its chaos. Focus on that which you gives you joy, peace, contentment, inspiration, and hope. Know that just as easily as you can choose a new thought, you choose a better, higher, more loving, and peaceful vibration. You are lights upon this earth. You are the midwives of a new and greater reality. You are the hands, the eyes, the heart of the Divine. Love everywhere and anywhere you can, for no emanation of love is ever insignificant. Your seemingly small choices may well be the vibration that shifts the balance in a hurting heart, or a hurting world. God Bless You! We love you more than you can possibly imagine. -- The Angels
Gillian MacBeth-Louthan thequantumawakening@gmail.com via getresponse-mail.com From Your Hostess of Light: As Time increments have become filled with chewy possibility the telomeres of our soul ask for new instructs and insulation. At this point of energy and Light everything is frayed and splintered like we all have split ends of the Soul. Are adrenals are on high alert as we stand guard against everything and everyone. Everyday we have the exact same amount of time increments to spend in thought, in deed, in laughter and in sleep. Every day how we spend our time increments differs in energy, in motion, in thought. Time is like a weekly paycheck giving you the exact amount. Do we spend our time on worry and anger, doing frivolous deeds or do we spend it wisely lovingly inhaling and savoring each minute of it. Whether you live in a cardboard box or the White House time is equal for each. Do you spend your time sitting on the toilet tweeting the world or do you spend your time loving, giving your assistance, your heart and your energy toward that which seeks you. The old analogy cornbread is square and Pi is round also applies to our life and its geometry. We are a living pi chart in a multitude of ways, everyday a new number is added to our resume. This last year has taken the wind out of our sails in fact we have Dry Docked our dream-boat because we did not see any sunny days ahead of us in 2020. We have learned to make do and put a rubber band on everything that we buy stretching it past its natural circumference. We are not the same people or species so much of us has flaked off like dead skin on a snake. transforming and transmuting who we were into something unknown and invisible from this angle of seeing. The people in our life are like beautiful ‘Hope Diamonds’ A Priceless Treasure that we did not appreciate until we could no longer see their beautiful faces or hug their beautiful light. We walk slowly and cautiously towards the holi-days: Thanksgiving Christmas and 'God we Hope a Happy New Year'. We are Afraid to get too close to fun, excitement, family or the Future. We stand like a deer in the Headlights not moving forward not moving backward not moving at all. The Holi-days beckon us like a double rainbow; we just cannot take our eyes or heart off the prospect of spending time with our loved ones. We have canceled so many aspects of self, of our life, our family celebrations we as a planet need these holidays like a starving man needs a good hot meal. As we move towards the 11:11 Gateway in a new dimension of different proportion, we are asked once again to meet heart-to-heart, light to light and create a circuitry of Living Love that outshines any darkness on Earth. A LIVING LIGHT so magnificent that it can be seen from the stars. Once a day from this minute to January 11th 2021 spend at least 5 minutes per day loving embracing, seeing the magic of the holidays. Embracing all that is holy, those that you love, embracing a bright future that is greater than anything that has happened this past year. Hold tight to that beautiful heart and thought of Celebrating Life. I've seen the light on the other side of the tunnel as we all walked through the valley of the shadow death this past year and like an everlasting blue sky we have to look beyond the stormy clouds. What is Holy and good within us has withstood the maelstrom. We now stand at the Apex of who we are becoming, of what we have let go off, and how we will create the future in our heart. Gillian MacBeth-Louthan thequantumawakening@gmail.com via getresponse-mail.com The Approval Addiction
October 21, 2020 SaaniaSparkle, 160 Comments A lot of us wish for our talents, our intelligence, or our strengths to be recognised, appreciated, and known by others. But we very soon start to rely on these approvals and try to ‘alter’ our lives to fit in within these expectations. Unfortunately, right from here starts a very vicious cycle. Ever since I was younger, I had an insane obsession with ‘making sure people knew’ I was this or I was that. My mood, my emotions, and my feelings were a dangerously direct reflection of what others thought of me. It got to the point where I got excessively dependent on ‘approval’. If people praised me, I would feel empowered. If people criticised me, I would feel anxious. And if people insulted me, I would start to look down on myself. A common example I often look back at are the times wherein I felt the immense pleasure when my teachers would praise me, when my friends would praise me, and how I’d feel so superior when I beat someone’s highest score in class. Conversely, how I would grow wild with angst when others performed better than me. Not only because I didn’t do well, but because others now saw that. But I now think to myself, why did the opinions of others matter to me so greatly? At the end of the day, we live to push our limits, and reach our goals. And none of that should have to change based on the views of the people around us. I was reading the book Feeling Good: The New Mood Therapy by David Burns, and it made me realise how I had made it a habit to evaluate myself through the eyes of others. I now see that I can be so much more than that. It can be enjoyable to have someone approve of us, but I don’t think we need this approval to be able to love and respect ourselves. Likewise, disapproval can be uncomfortable and it can make our life feel sour and rotten. But it doesn’t make us any less of a person. When we give our power over to others, we lose out on who we really are, and the only reality we then see is how we believe others see us. |
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