Whatever you are giving your attention to is already vibrating. And when you give your attention to it, if you maintain your focus for as little as 17 seconds, you begin to include its vibration, whatever it is, in your vibration. When you see something you want, and you give it your attention, and you say yes to it, you are including whatever its vibration is in your vibration. When you see something you do not want, and you shout no at it, you are including whatever its vibration is in your vibration. In this vibrational world, which is everything, you are far more vibrational beings than you are verbal beings. You are communicating with everyone far more on a vibrational basis, than you are on a verbal basis.
---Abraham, Jerry & Ester Hicks

There is no shortage. And any attention to shortage of something wanted will always produce negative emotion within you because your guidance is letting you know that you have strayed from your broader basic understanding of abundance and Well-Being. Whether you are focused upon the shortage of money—or seeing yourself as having only so many years to live (and so each day that is expended is one day closer to the end of your years)—that feeling of decline is contrary to your broader understanding of the Eternal nature of your Being.
---Abraham, Jerry & Ester Hicks

Earn Your Own
On your Earth plane respect is defined as a feeling or understanding that someone or something is important, serious, etc., and should be treated in an appropriate way.
Some of you may not fully understand this because no one in your life has demonstrated, pursued it or, perhaps, you have seen it and believe it unattainable for yourself.  Remember, my dearest child, it starts within.  If you show respect to yourself, you will begin to see qualities in others that deserve it in kind.  Earn your own respect and others will begin to show you the respect you feel you deserve. ~ Creator
From Jennifer Farley, The Creator Writings

Learn to love yourself as much as The Universe loves you. It is possible, attainable and deserved. ~ Creator
Jennifer Farley, The Creator Writings