The hard part can be finding it - both the solution & the tool.
Perhaps the real question is WHERE you are looking & HOW!
You can look with an attitude that it's going to be "hard", but that is creating hard- it is limiting God/universe as well by expecting hard instead of letting go in trust.
You can look at the problem & in doing so it gets magnified. If you are looking for the what's wrong you'll find it & more that's wrong
---Abraham, Ester & Jerry Hicks
Look for the love from the space of love. If you can decide to feel great, feel happy, joyful, loving you open the door to solutions. With an attitude of positivity, exploration, optimism & calmness answers can be discovered from the inner wisdom of the universe...
The ego is crafty! It seeks attention & will go to great & unending lengths to draw you in further & further. I began to notice it clearly when I was listening to a spiritual friend go on & on about his new-found understanding of the ego. He went to great lengths to elaborate on the great craftiness, & intelligence of the ego (our own or the darkness in others). My friend was stating that we needed to have tremendous respect for it & went to great lengths to discuss it's dangers.. It finally dawned on me that all of this really amounted to a great fear & focused attention on the ego that was quite infectious- it wanted to drawn me into fear too! While it is definitely good & necessary to address our fears & even to chase them away with faith/love, we do not need to linger in that space. As the light shines on our hearts from the universe it naturally brings up the darkness within each of us in order tha we may deal with it -forgive & release it then replace it with more light. We don't really need to seek it out - we can let go & the Universe/God/Angels will bring forth what needs to be dealt with at the proper time.
Also, as I've suggested, we don't need to stay there - we don't need to rehash old stories, repeatedly go through each issue , what happened & who did what. It's a trap of the ego - it seeks to draw you back in to a more convoluted spiderweb of lies, emotions, blaming & other fearful thoughts - just release it & GET OUT! Return to love as quickly as possible & thereby strengthen your focus/attention on the good.
I hope this helps you to feel great & to grow in love & gratitude! Please let me know & pass on the love to others by sharing this link! Davo. hartbridge.ca