Are you still holding on to what you want? (like i do) Do you want something so badly that you ask for it but hold on with your anxiety? It's easy to do, it's common, & you probably don't even realize you are!
Do you truly want something to come into your life? Yes, there's a process, often a whole lot of clearing & release of negativity & so on, but that's all very good! How much do you want it? Enough to let go?
I'm not at all suggesting there is no effort to getting something- there is, but the effort is more about coming into alignment or becoming a match to what you wish for. What most of us tend to do is try to MAKE it happen or force it & all that will do is strengthen the negative side as it is quite fruitless. Certainly, we are all free to try that, just as much as we are free to accept letting go or not....
Personally I have found that in so many small ways I have been trying to force the issue. Even in trying to help people achieve greater happiness! I can't make it happen or even convince anyone as much as I might care - I can have that intent & put out these blogs/messages & pour energy into this website, but "you can lead a horse to water , but you can't make it drink". I need to let the universe bring it about from my energies of intent with emotional loving specific envisioning of it actually taking place
Holding on is a fear once identified can be released. Replace it with the light of trust
So HAPPY manifesting to those who CHOSE the path of LETTING GO